“Robbie B., 3-3-96.”
The War Memorial Stadium was filled with coffee and doughnuts. Not to mention dogs of all sizes, breeds and colors. “Thriller” playing in the background, teams huddled and grooved to the beat to stay warm; trying to put the cold weather behind them. Balloons bobbled like lost souls in a sea of sweatshirts, scarves and murdered conversation.
Addison Ore entered the field, a single sheet of paper in hand. She then read the paper aloud.
The “somber honor” quieted the crowd like a peaceful calm over the sea. To this day, she will have read 80 names of her colleagues who fought a long battle. A battle they lost to HIV and AIDS.
Ore, the executive director of Triad Heath Project, stood on the field to raise awareness on what she describes as a “hideous epidemic” that affects around 1.1 million people, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
After the names were read, people in the stands yelled out names of their own. The air filled with lost loves, co-workers, and friends who lives ended too soon.
Ore wasn’t at the stadium to catch a “fly ball” after she shared her story.
Ore, along with the other thousands of people shivering in the stands were there to walk.
Dec. 6, 2009 marked the 18th Annual “Winter Walk for Aids.”
“Know your status,” Ore pleaded with crowd. “Get tested.”
“Keith F., 1–29–01.
David Rogerson is a sophomore at Elon University. Dec. 6 is the day of his first walk for HIV and AIDS.
His first walk ever, actually.
Rogerson was glad to make it his first. He felt inspired during the walk, since there’s not many ways to give back for this disease.
“I felt as though this is the least I could give back to them,” Rogerson said, “considering how healthy, fortunate, and blessed I am to still be in good health.”
He said the AIDS walk helped bring people together. It’s a disease that has no mercy on whom if will infect and tear from our lives, he added.
The thought of countless AIDS victims stayed on his mind when he became tired and restless, helping him to quickly “dismissed” the feeling of defeat.
“My feeling tired and pain is nothing in comparison to what the victims of HIV and AIDS and their families go through,” Rogerson said.
“Mom, 11-14-90.”
Ben Poole, a freshman at Elon, had done many walks before. He feels it’s more than just walking around a city. Walking for HIV and AIDS shows that you actually care and want to make a difference.
“I felt I was doing something positive and proactive,” Poole said.
Poole feels that you have to do more than just talk about the issues. He sees the need in raising awareness physically and visually, rather than just mentally.
“I’m decked out now,” Poole said at the walk. “I got my balloon. I got my sign. I’m ready to go!”
“Seth, 09-09-91.”
Derricus Spear, also a freshman at Elon, was a first-time walker like Rogerson. He believes he grew from the experience through awareness and action. He also feels that the community helped shape his ability to come together for a greater good.
“All the different people and groups put their differences aside and were united as one group for one common goal,” he said.
Even though he enjoyed the walk, he was excited to see the end of the road and go back to school. The end of the walk meant no more walking.
“Just being real,” Spear said, “I was kind of relieved.”
Spear wasn’t expecting it to be so cold. It was an icy 35 degrees when the walk started.
“I didn’t catch the winter part,” he said, referring to the title of the walk. “But next time”, he said, “I will be prepared.
Mitchell H., 4-12-93.
So far, the donations from the walk total $26,164. They’re still counting. The giving is high. But some feel many didn’t receive how serious HIV and AIDS can be.
Rogerson felt that some people used the event for “gaining service hours,” rather than helping those affected by AIDS. Even though serving the community is important, he felt it’s important to put yourself in the shoes of the family members of those directly affected by this disease.
Ashley Jenkins, a graduate student at UNC-Chapel Hill, thinks college students don’t realize how serious the issue is. She feels they think AIDS is a thing of the past, mainly occurring in the 90s.
“I don’t think they truly understand that it’s not gone,” she said.
Many others agree. Some think AIDS is something that only crosses your mind when you see the flyers and commercials. Others think the issue only matters when it directly hits home. Either way, all agree that college students don’t see the full picture of HIV or AIDS. How many people it takes a year. The number of people shunned by their family. The mother who lost a son, or the brother who lost a sister.
There was no golden tape at the end of the walk for HIV and AIDS. There’s no finish line for those going through the disease as well. But, there is one last sign that gives us all hope:
“In honor of Rea-Lewis Thomas. Keep Fighting.”